Never allow someone to play God over your life.

 It's my 5 year anniversary of being divorced.  💕 💕 Count it all joy. 

This topic came up when I was talking to my friend Lisa, who is a therapist.  I have gotten a lot of great advice from her over the years but I was discussing with her how I handled this issue (see title) in my own life and I want to share this so it helps others.  I want everyone to have the same peace and control I have in my own life. 

Hope this helps your journey in life. 

God never sets anyone as God or ruler over your life.  When these things happen it destroys the work God is doing in your life or someone else's.   We have to recognize it for what it is and it is narcissistic behavior and that's straight out of a therapist mouth.

Here are the steps I used to deal with this in my own life and a lot of the things I implemented came straight from Lisa.

Step by step:

1.  I prayed Isaiah 54:17 daily against all who came to me as God, ruler, false friendship, pretending to care, plain out enemies or looking for info and to gossip.  To me this is the most important step.  

2.  I recognized the behavior for what it is: narcissistic, jealousy, envy or just unrest or unhappiness in the other person.  Like Lisa said, these behaviors are never about you.  Never internalized others behaviors.  Keep your own bubble at peace.

 3.  I set a boundary, immediately, with no exceptions.  Period.  This is an extremely important step.  All of this started with my divorce back in 2020.  As Lisa said, when you go through a transition in life you will have low vibration people coming at you. Nine times out of 10 it is always during a transition in life when you are LEVELING UP your life. She said, there will always be those who will oppose it for their own reasons.  Mostly, she said, it is due to the unhappiness in their own lives.  

4.  Walk away.  You know what's best for your life.  

******After you have done these steps just watch and wait. 

These are the things I saw in my waiting. 

1.  Apologies will come. 

2.  You will see the person for who they really are.  

3.  God will exaggerate their problems until they can't focus on anything but their own problems.  

4.  God will give you favor. 

5.  God will bless you in front of your enemies. 

Hope this helps your journey in life. :-)

And remember... you are responsible for keeping your own bubble at peace.  Be vigilant.  Be strong.  Be at ✌️ 🕊️.  

P.S.  You can read my other blog post on boundaries which goes a long with this.